Is it possible to heal a relationship, or fix the broken marriage, and go deep into rekindling the old love to make it better than ever before?

Let's address a few questions about dealing with infidelity and whether or not you should be considering ending a relationship

Leaving a relationship is not always the best thing to do when recovering after an affair, so let's look at whether you should begin moving on, or choosing healing for staying together.

- Do you want to stay in the relationship?

This is frequently the most obvious, and the toughest question to respond to when there has been infidelity in marriage.

You understand yourself and your partner and how you truly feel.

Reconstructing a relationship while surviving infidelity will take a great deal of time, a great deal of perseverance, a great deal of trust, and mostly a great deal of love.

If you do not seem like you can truthfully bring those characteristics to the table you will most likely not be abl

As a Marriage & Family Therapist for over 40 years, I have counseled many couples. With the goal of improving their relationships, I helped them understand themselves and each other, practice constructive communication, express their resentments, make positive agreements, and create win-win solutions. Then I ask them to forgive themselves and each other for anything they did or said that was not loving. I tell them that they both did the best they could with the information they had, and now they know better.

I believe that most people struggle with their partners, because love is not enough, and they lack the necessary insights and solutions. "It is like you want to build a house," I tell them, "but you have no manual or tools to succeed. Then you wonder why your relationship is struggling."

Couples may choose to stay miserable or separate from their partners when things are too troublesome. However, often if they resume their relationship, and their behaviors